From Small Town to the Big City

Moving from one place to another is never an easy task. It involves a lot of planning, coordination, and execution. However, moving from Papillion, NE to Chicago, IL was an entirely different experience for me. It was not just about the physical distance that I had to cover, but it was also about the emotional distance that I had to overcome.

As soon as I received the news that I had to move to Chicago, I was both excited and scared. Excited, because it was a new opportunity for me to explore a new city and meet new people. Scared, because it was the first time I was moving so far away from my family and friends. I had mixed emotions, and I knew that I had to deal with them before I could move forward.

The first thing that I did was to become mindful of my present emotions. I knew that I had to acknowledge my feelings and accept them before I could move on. I spent a lot of time reflecting on my emotions and thinking about how I could deal with them. I realized that it was okay to be scared and anxious, but I also knew that I had to be strong and face my fears.

As the day of my departure approached, my family became both supportive and upset. They were supportive because they knew that this move was essential for my future. However, they were also upset because they felt that I was leaving them and my future behind. I knew that it was not easy for them to see me go, but I also knew that I had to follow my dreams.

The day of my departure was one of the most emotional days of my life. I was excited about the new adventure that awaited me, but I was also sad about leaving my family and friends behind. I remember hugging my parents and aunt tightly, trying to hold back my tears. It was not easy to say goodbye, but I knew that I had to do it.

As my family and I entered the blue Chrysler van I was reminded of the long road trips we took as young children where I felt a mix of nervousness and excitement. I was looking forward to exploring the city, but I was also scared about what the future held for me. I knew that I had to be strong and face my fears head-on.

When I arrived in Chicago, I was immediatly struck by the hustle and bustle of the city. It was a stark contrast to the quiet and peaceful life that I had back in Papillion. The first few weeks were an adjustment but the person whom invited me to stay with them made me feel at home and loved.

As time went by, I began to adapt to my new surroundings. I started to explore the city, I made new friends, I found a job, and I started to build a life for myself in Chicago. I realized that the move was the best decision that I could have made for myself.

Despite the positive changes that were happening in my life, I still struggled with the guilt of leaving my family behind. I knew that they were proud of me, but I also knew that I had hurt them by leaving. I tried to stay in touch with them as much as possible, but it was not the same as being with them in person.

During this time, I learned the importance of communication and empathy. I had to put myself in my family's shoes and understand their perspective. I listened to their concerns and tried to address them as best as I could. I also shared my experiences with them, and I made sure to keep them updated on my life in Chicago.

Over time, my family also started to see the positive changes in my life. They were happy for me, and they were proud of my accomplishments. They realized that the move was necessary for my personal growth, and they supported me in every way possible.

Looking back on my experience, I realized that moving to a new city is not just about the physical distance that you have to cover. It is also about the emotional distance that you have to overcome. It requires a lot of courage, strength, and resilience. It is about stepping out of your comfort zone and facing your fears.

Moving to Chicago was one of the most challenging experiences of my life, but it was also one of the most rewarding. It taught me the importance of self-reflection, communication, and empathy. It helped me to grow as a person, and it gave me the courage to face new challenges in life.

Moving from Papillion, NE to Chicago, IL was an emotional rollercoaster for me. It involved a lot of mixed emotions, including excitement, fear, and guilt. However, through it all, I learned the importance of mindfulness, communication, and empathy. I am grateful for the experience, and I am proud of the person that I have become because of it.

Previous
Previous

Year One... and the Struggle

Next
Next

The Power of Positive Memories: How Falling in Love at Lincoln Park Zoo Keeps Me Centered